i literally havent been close to anyone irl since like
year 11 in highschool
year 11 in highschool
@pie Why is that?
@terryenglish idk im boring and annoying and probably have other deep character flaws that are why no one enjoys me being around
@pie Do you think that your insecurities my cause you to keep people at a distance?
@terryenglish i suck at talking to people unless i already know them but other than that no
people just get sick of me
people just get sick of me
@pie Has anyone ever explicitly told you that?
@pie @terryenglish y let other people, most likely broken or malicious, dictate how you feel about yourself? Stahp that. 
@RehnSturm256 @terryenglish if a whole bunch of people have called me annoying and boring for years, and every person ive been close to eventually gets sick of me, i think thats undeniable evidence
@pie You need to start picking the people you're close to more carefully. @RehnSturm256
@terryenglish @RehnSturm256 not really much choice
since i started uni the only people ive been at all close to ive met entirely by chance at events
i don't relate to anyone ive met at uni at all
since i started uni the only people ive been at all close to ive met entirely by chance at events
i don't relate to anyone ive met at uni at all
@pie @terryenglish ew, uni?
Oh boy... I could tell you horror stories... Most colleges were just "Highschool Part 2" for me. Except, now in college which has more stakes, peoples' awfulness &... Machiavellian machinations, as I'd call them... became more apparent.
I would suggest you try to bond less with drinking events, and more so with clubs on campus imo.
Oh boy... I could tell you horror stories... Most colleges were just "Highschool Part 2" for me. Except, now in college which has more stakes, peoples' awfulness &... Machiavellian machinations, as I'd call them... became more apparent.
I would suggest you try to bond less with drinking events, and more so with clubs on campus imo.
@RehnSturm256 @terryenglish it sucks because i live really far from uni so getting to and from things takes forever and most club things are short notice and don't go very long, its a lot of effort traveling 4 hours for a one or two hour club thing
plus there aren't really any clubs i find super interesting either, but thats secondary, if going wasnt such a pain there's some that i would go to
plus there aren't really any clubs i find super interesting either, but thats secondary, if going wasnt such a pain there's some that i would go to
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@pie Damn 4 hours? That sucks. What about local activities where you live? @RehnSturm256
