What I've learned so far being in this city:
You can't date people if all people are already in happy relationships.
Like.
Every. Single. Person. On this whole damn university.
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@terryenglish ikr? you're not even in the battle because every war happened when you were not there.
so you're there and its just "hi um there is nothing left for you but here take those superficial friendships. better? better!"
@terryenglish :blobcatfearful: b... b... but I am still young... why is it like that already when I am still young????????

WHERE ARE THOSE 34937842384728 FANBOYS I CAN DATE EVERYONE AT ONCE AND THEN CHOOSE NOONE FROM EVERYONE PROMISED ME?!?!!??!? :blobcatcry:

@chumii As soon as you hit your mid to late twenties that’s when everyone pairs off and starts making families. The pool at that point starts to dry up pretty fast. Not to discourage you too much but it’s a pretty hard reality to ignore.

@terryenglish so you're saying I have to hurry because I don't have a decade left and then abduct that person so they will never leave me again? :acat:
@chumii @terryenglish I know I should be working but I'm free and single atm. Lol.
@terryenglish @chumii are you even living if you haven't been kidnapped by a yandere once in your life?
@terryenglish @chumii to be completely honest though I am actually planning to ask a friend out on a date and see how that goes, hopefully well but I think things going well with that is sorta optimistic.
@LarryFoulke @terryenglish trying is important!!! :YEEEEEE:

the only thing that would stop me from asking a person I'm interested in is if that persons already in a relationship, happy or not, I don't want to interfere with that
@chumii @terryenglish I feel the same, I wouldn't want someone interfering with my relationship so I avoid doing so with others. Funnily enough she was going to go on a date with a guy but he flaked and never made any moves or set up any dates like an idiot.

I'm not even particularly attracted to her, just know her and have been alone long enough due to shyness and not meeting people that I'm willing to take a shot in the dark and see if anything happens.
@Grandtheftautism @chumii @terryenglish remember that flakey "boyfriend" that basically stood her up? Yeah she's still a bit salt about that, I think I'll wait for the soup to cool down a little first.
@Jojothegoodperson @Grandtheftautism @LarryFoulke @terryenglish could you please not? its kinda random and out of context for me so I would appreciate it if you can please don't make such comments at least if I am in the conversation

I prefer kindness :blobcatheart:
@chumii @Jojothegoodperson @Grandtheftautism @terryenglish just ignore block and mute jojo and all of his accounts, he derails threads and block spams people.

I can't even see what he's saying I have him blocked and muted so hard :bloblamp:
@LarryFoulke @chumii @Grandtheftautism @terryenglish
Shut the fuck up faggot, you're such an incel that can't even get yourself a long relationship.
@LarryFoulke @Grandtheftautism @TheMadPirate @terryenglish well I've tried to be nice but the reaction seemed too irrational to me so I thought its too scary so now I am also :abloblamp:
@chumii @Grandtheftautism @TheMadPirate @terryenglish you won't regret it the silence is lovely, I'll send a list of his accounts once I'm at my computer in case you don't want those bothering you later down the road.
@LarryFoulke @Grandtheftautism @chumii @terryenglish I was willing to gave him the benefit of the doubt until his attention seeking spam posting short focus writing annoyed the fuck out of me.
@TheMadPirate @Grandtheftautism @chumii @terryenglish his block spam is what did me in, I think he's the only person I've blocked.
@LarryFoulke @TheMadPirate @Grandtheftautism @terryenglish ikr. only other accounts I've blocked are those weird porn bots

even if I find those accounts who follow me ,like random out of nowhere, suspicious bc their posts are 100% a language I don't know but I don't even block them
@chumii @Grandtheftautism @TheMadPirate @terryenglish aw, I like the porn bots, they favorite my posts from time to time lol.

Yeah I only block if you block spam me cause that causes an unavoidable spam of your blocked messages in the notes.
@chumii @Grandtheftautism @TheMadPirate @terryenglish sounds comfy I'll have to find something to make an alt with there.

You're pretty cool mind if I follow?
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@LarryFoulke @Grandtheftautism @chumii @terryenglish it's a "sex workers" instance created after they were thrown off from Tumblr, Facebook and Twitter. Really nice people tbh.
@LarryFoulke @chumii @terryenglish maybe if you strike now while she's good and salty she'll hatefuck you, did you ever consider that?
@Grandtheftautism @chumii @terryenglish I'd also like to stay friends if we break up and am more looking for a stable relationship thankyou, sounds hot though.
@Jojothegoodperson @LarryFoulke @Grandtheftautism @chumii @terryenglish good work JoJo! We don't need you infecting our hetero women with your gay people STDs. Keep fighting the good fight.
@LarryFoulke @terryenglish sounds good enough to me :blobcatdunno:
I didn't had definitive feelings for my cutie until he made 12938291 moves on me

bad thing I moved away from him and I am not that good at long-distance relationships :blobcatcry:
@chumii @terryenglish oof, girl I feel ya.

I had a crush on this other girl in the friend group but she already had a boyfriend and didn't have feelings for me, but what hit me hardest about her is that she simply gave me the time of day and was super nice to me and so when I finally ended up confessing having a crush on her she tald me that she didn't see how I could have grown feelings for her because she didn't think she was that nice to me, ironic, eventually I got over the crush and her boyfriend's a pretty cool dude, she's one of my greatest friends I have out of that group if not ever.
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