What I've learned so far being in this city:
You can't date people if all people are already in happy relationships.
Like.
Every. Single. Person. On this whole damn university.
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@terryenglish ikr? you're not even in the battle because every war happened when you were not there.
so you're there and its just "hi um there is nothing left for you but here take those superficial friendships. better? better!"
@terryenglish :blobcatfearful: b... b... but I am still young... why is it like that already when I am still young????????

WHERE ARE THOSE 34937842384728 FANBOYS I CAN DATE EVERYONE AT ONCE AND THEN CHOOSE NOONE FROM EVERYONE PROMISED ME?!?!!??!? :blobcatcry:

@chumii As soon as you hit your mid to late twenties that’s when everyone pairs off and starts making families. The pool at that point starts to dry up pretty fast. Not to discourage you too much but it’s a pretty hard reality to ignore.

@terryenglish so you're saying I have to hurry because I don't have a decade left and then abduct that person so they will never leave me again? :acat:
@chumii @terryenglish I know I should be working but I'm free and single atm. Lol.
@terryenglish @chumii are you even living if you haven't been kidnapped by a yandere once in your life?
@terryenglish @chumii to be completely honest though I am actually planning to ask a friend out on a date and see how that goes, hopefully well but I think things going well with that is sorta optimistic.
@LarryFoulke @terryenglish trying is important!!! :YEEEEEE:

the only thing that would stop me from asking a person I'm interested in is if that persons already in a relationship, happy or not, I don't want to interfere with that
@chumii @terryenglish I feel the same, I wouldn't want someone interfering with my relationship so I avoid doing so with others. Funnily enough she was going to go on a date with a guy but he flaked and never made any moves or set up any dates like an idiot.

I'm not even particularly attracted to her, just know her and have been alone long enough due to shyness and not meeting people that I'm willing to take a shot in the dark and see if anything happens.
@Grandtheftautism @chumii @terryenglish remember that flakey "boyfriend" that basically stood her up? Yeah she's still a bit salt about that, I think I'll wait for the soup to cool down a little first.
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