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@11112011
ooh i don't think I heal that way.

Not that logical sadly 😭
@FailurePersonified i feel your pain, its a shame she left you,was it for other guy?
@11112011
actually been working on repairing our shattered friendship, it's been good.

She's still a little sensitive about the whole ordeal, it was rather ugly, but she's a sweet girl.

Also kind of realized that they guy she went for is a megafaggot who doesn't actually give two shits about her and so she doesn't ever hit me with the, "I chose him over you so fuck off" it's more of, "oh shit you were right he is a dick"
but you know how it is... still cares about the faggot, and he's like, "oh i'm gonna start hurting myself again if you leave" (I'm paraphrasing) so that's wonderful.

so I'm being supportive, not an epic win on her part.
@FailurePersonified man thas bad,you friend the dude gets laid but if you coo with that arregement i guess its fine
@11112011
nah see... that's the good part.

He ain't getting nothing. She is a... what we call a traditional woman, and one who is very guarded.
He getting nothing and that makes me laugh.
@11112011
she basically told me when we were together that she didn't like that shit, and I said, "no problem I like you" because I'm much the same way.
and I talk to her daily, and she told me a few things about him; she doesn't like certain things he says, they indicate she hasn't changed her stance on fun-times.

anyhow, it's not a relationship, it's not what I wanted, it's not what she wanted.

Maybe it'll work out, but I'm doubtful
@11112011 oh and i should mention.
He hates me... like with a genuine passion.

I don't know what to tell him, he stole my girl and is now complaining that he somehow has some right to her? fuck that, I'm going to help the woman I love and you can go fuck yourself.

Anyway it's an ordeal that I mostly don't deal with, since I don't see him anymore, like ever... and she doesn't seem to care he doesn't like it, she's kind of growing weary of him. It's pretty strange, I don't know, I keep out of their business as much as I can; rarely even mention he exists, rarely bring up any of that.

It's about building trust and maintaining a relationship with the person. If you care about them you will give advice when they ask for it, and encourage them to take care of themselves and improve. Not to tell her that she should dump that dead weight, that won't help anything, that's a damn good way to make yourself a bad guy real fuckin' quick, since it becomes less of, "this person loves me and wants the best" to "this person just wants to fuck over the asshole who fucked him and he's using me to do it"

Hopefully this makes sense.
@colonelj @11112011

oh absolutely agree, she knows that while I care about her I don't think we would work (at least at current) but I don't know, give her a few years.

She's a good person just not quite there yet you know what I'm saying?
@FailurePersonified @11112011 they must pay and learn what a retard they are instead of just blaming the dude
@colonelj @11112011

I mean, she kind of liked this nigga for like 4 years (failed to tell me about this) and he's... i mean, I used to know him. He's a really convincing dude, very good people skills, too bad he's kind of terrible underneath that.

and you know, if you sat us side by side most people would side with him since I don't really, you know, I don't look as good, I'm not as well spoken.

The only difference is I care and was raised right, he wasn't (to either things)
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@FailurePersonified
You're a much more mature and forgiving person than I. I would never entertain the idea of taking her back and I would be sure to tell her that.
@11112011 @colonelj

@terryenglish @11112011 @colonelj

Maybe... I don't know, I once made her cry for 6 hours straight without meaning to.

Didn't leave, only for one minute to piss and I told her I would be back (we were also outside so i got her an extra jacket)

so yeah, mature and forgiving maybe, but I have my days of EXTREME BRUTALITY 😓
@Imsorry655 @11112011 @FailurePersonified @colonelj @terryenglish that's good! You need to stop blockspamming, though, everybody gets real pissed when you do that.
@Imsorry655 @11112011 @Grandtheftautism @colonelj @terryenglish
I LIED
*eats creature, you hear the poor wretch scream in agony as i rip into his tender flesh*
❤️
@Imsorry655 @11112011 @Grandtheftautism @colonelj @terryenglish

oh shit, I genuinely thought for a second that it being black meant I wasn't a cannibal... forgot that human thing.
That was not a meme my brain did that on it's own.

I'm gonna go sit in a corner and think about the racist shit years of internet has made me
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