I am self-hosting several projects on a simple server install which has accreted a ton of cruft over years and needs to be taken apart and rebuilt. The time and effort has me procrastinating.
What I want is an easy/tiny/fast proxy server, and then a separate box(es) with the hosted service(s), with panels including maintenance.
And to get there I would like a library of layman articles to explain the steps, which I would be happy to help write.