I think about this king a lot who has deradicalized over 200 klansmen by just being a good person. Maybe it's time to stop harassing marginalized people for doing the leftist work you don't want to do.
Imagine getting a puppy and you're always picking it up to hold and cuddle n such. But it grows up huge, cuz it's a mastiff or newfoundland, and it still wants you to pick it up and carry it like a baby.