Too many feminists think that feminism is about challenging and competing with men at things men are good at while rejecting things women are good at. That's actually anti-feminist thinking. Instead of trying to beat men at things men do, feminists should be focusing on the things women are good at. Especially the things men can never do.
A feminist who practices feminism by trying to be a man is like a wizard who practices wizardry by trying to be a fighter. It won't work and completely wastes everything that makes the wizard special.