@terryenglish @fireglow
My problem is that the *latest* person to give their opinion on me is always assumed to be correct.
That's one hell of a bug.
@terryenglish @fireglow
That's the other bit: Dude was subtooting talking about how "this guy doesn't know instance blocks exist OMEGALUL"
Dude's goal seems to be "I will never ever see anything I find detestable", and I'm saying "You may have to see it one time, before never seeing it again."
If that's unreasonable, that person's gonna have a super hard time functioning in society.
Oh boy, here's where I piss off the other side and have nobody to talk to :(
In the past 5 years, I've learned that some users want choices abstracted from them. That, of itself, is their choice.
It's why I think the list of "global" blocks for an instance should be public. It's one of the things you compare when you "shop" for a place to make your Mastodon account.
If Joe Blow wants their feed curated, more power to them.
@ItsJenNotGabby Perhaps I misunderstood things, but it appeared to me that you were condemning him for being somewhat closed minded while at the same time discarding his perspective. Being intolerant of other points of view is not unique to any side of the political spectrum. I say this as someone who happens to agree with you btw, that you should be free to be in a relationship without having children. That's what's great about the times we live in is that people are free to choose.
@fireglow
Well and the dude calls me racist and all the rest while saying "white people this" and "white people that" and more than anything I'm confused, assuming I'd missed something.
If it really was "if user.bigot { dont_federate};" I'd be all for it, but the gotcha is always the corner cases, and that'd require some serious advances in AI
The whole storm started when I slowly tried to bring dude to that conclusion
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@fireglow @terryenglish
I also think, for people like that (and corporate users too, for compliance reasons), 'federate ONLY with instances I allow' definitely needs to be an option.
Instance Admins are users too.
The frustration is from the blanket assumption that I'm not at least trying to look out for dude's interests, just because I'm Irish.
@r000t @fireglow I don't know if I like the idea of an automatic block list as a general rule. I certainly don't think that blocking should be done at the instance level. Users can decide for themselves what to block. Some are only on social media to feed their narcissism like our friend who rage quit and the only solution for those people is to get out into the real world.
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I have moved to terryenglish@blob.cat so please follow me there.