@ililiiiililiilillil @RUSHIFA @canidaeportent @theblessing Depending on how you organize it, I wouldn't necessarily call a gang bang gay.
As for cuckoldry... I generally just put it in a category of it's own. Somewhere far far away. Think of it this way, cuckoldry usually just implies sitting there and watching your gf getting fucked by a strange man. It's not that different than finding out she used to do porn, and watching one of her old tapes.
Considering you're not actively involved, it's not any gayer than watching regular straight porn.