@strypey @muppeth I'm just dipping my toes in at this point - last night I installed #yunohost on an old PC and have a few things installed, including #zap. Zap has an "access lists" app (not installed by default) that appears to allow the creation of (as best I understand them) something like circles. I just added a "family" list to the default "friends." These can be selected when posting, and there is an access list filter on the stream.