@feld @sun
> at least when you're emailing your friends/family you don't have random people replying with nonsense
If it's about friends and family-only (same as it's with e-mail), fire up an instance just for them, turn off the federation, close the registration and make the timelines non-public — problem solved.
If you keep the federation on — you're like inviting outside people yourself, and yes — some of those might be idiots 🤷