@goatwildernesscollective @pixelfed you can try liberapay and opencollective
@pixelfed in hindsight i think what is missing is a payment provider abstraction layer, instead of serving Customer to Payment Provider to Business, it would serve Customer to Abstraction Layer to (Paypal, Banks, all the Above) to Business, that way it would be completely anonymous (similar to Apple Pay but completely agnostic to what the business needs for a pay provider, basically serving all)
@goatwildernesscollective @pixelfed didn't flatter became creepy as well. I'd suggest ko-fi, GitHub Sponsors, libera pay ...