Look, I understand that NPD is a common outcome of being abused. And I’ve listened, and have adjusted my language.
But for what it’s worth, I avoid all people named Ron, or Kelly. Because of abusive relationships. And they both were/are pathological narcissists.
So while I mean you no harm, we cannot be friends if your name is Ron, or Kelly, or if you’re a narcissist. You’re not safe for me to be around. It’s that simple.