@clacke Also, if we classify people as wither racist or not, we lose the ability to detect our own racist behavior. "I'm not a racist, so what I said/did could never be racist" is a quite silly way of thinking.
You were talking about transphobia rather than racism, but I'm pretty sure the same thing applies: much better to focus on actions rather than putting a label on a person, as if that behavior is a some kind of definition of who that person is, that is really unfair to that person.
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