If you find yourself saying
"Well, I'm $marginalizedGroup, and I never had those problems!", ( maybe even followed by "so it's not as bad as you describe it!"), you might be part oft the problem?!
If you find yourself saying
"Well, I'm not member of $marginalizedGroup, but I have to protect them!", ( maybe without having been asked for help explicitly ), you might make them look and feel like victims even though they didn't feel that way before you helped.
Hey $marginalizedGroup, can youu please help us with your point of view to find the right way?
