@munir oh she's already deactivated, then you don't need to do anything else servers will process that just fine, unless you went through a really bad breakup and want to erase her from all your boxes
@munir deleting accounts is a destructive action even if you did manage to recreate the account it would be in a fucked up state on every other server because it's deactivated, server owners would have to reactivate that account manually
@munir do you have a working mail server or an account on one that can take plain smtp connections? if the answer is 'no' to both of those questions, you can't
@munir Why can't you reactivate the account, set password to a temporary one, give that user the temp password so they can log in and change it to the one they like? @nyanide