@Tony @fcktheworld587
> men don't shame everyone around them
😏
@Tony
Ah, when it comes to extra weight — that is true. Although, I think men have adopted that vision of body positivity too:
— No one loves me because I'm a fat fuck 😩
— So… stop being a fat fuck? 🤔
— Hurr-durr 🤪
Men are just slower at adopting that shit — I'm pretty sure we'd get to blaming others for everything too.
But I mean in general, men-only groups tend to be not much more healthy than women are.
@Tony
And I don't think we got here because of some social processes, it's just that people weren't talking much about it before — it was considered shameful universally. Now we got to a stage of talking about some things more openly, but it ended up in pointing fingers at some other group: "Look, they do it too and they are much worse than we are!" (In fact it's in the 5-10% ballpark difference).
@Tony
I still see it as positive dynamic: people get more comfortable with themselves, now they talk more openly about it, soon they will move on from blaming others to figuring out if it causes problems for them personally and whether they are willing to solve it 🤷♀️
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