@thor You do it right! Even when my close friends, send me a link to YouTube I just ignore it. There should be a reason for me to open it.
I'm really bad with video — can't stay focused on it for long, if you send me a link to some long text, you have higher chances I'd read it. With video I usually pause it in 3 minutes or so and never get back to it. When I see this tab in a couple of hours I just close it 😅