Have you ever looked back on your life and realized that somebody in the past you thought was extremist was actually just better educated and more observant than you, and just didn't like what they saw in the world? I've got a guy that I would love to be able to track back down and talk to, but I'm about 2,500 miles away from the last place we met, and I have no idea how to even begin trying to track him down without it being weird.