Zoe @ekg@librem.one

@Bronwyn @APBBlue my worst encounter so far was a man that thought it appropriate to lift my curtain and look Into my apartment, it was 30 degrees outside it wasn't an option to close the door. I had to tell him to fuck off twice.

My only conclusion is that he must have thought it appropriate because we had met once before in the *staffed* communal living room.

@youranoncentral.bsky.social this happened in Ukraine, within the last decade. I don't need to imagine. I heard the first account stories.

@APBBlue @Bronwyn you say that, but I have met my share of asshole that doesn't leave me alone. Usually, because I present as a guy, I can make them leave with body language.

But me suggesting that I can make them fly thirty metres with a glare, shouldn't be necessary.

Am I wrong in my conclusion that anarchy mostly boils downs to ableism? The argument seems to be that organised society shouldn't exist because I don't need help with daily life.

Maybe with a sling of people have always taken care of people with disabilities. Completely ignoring that a disability a thousand year ago was a broken leg, or a funny nose. Today we have people that can't breath without machines. Without functioning immune systems. Dependent on medications with short shelf life

Every morning I wake up, I chose violence. Then I am surprised when people seek cover.

@anthropy LRGB the R is for racist.

@RamenCatholic you can train dogs to retrieve anything from ducks to medicine. So you might not be able too breed one, but it should be possible to train one. If you are happy with a bit of dog breath on your cupcake.

@PandaCab this is a public forum. Sometimes the at sign is about who I talk about not who I am talking to.

I am clearly stating my view of the conversation as an answer to what I belive was a partisan summary.

If that is harassment I would struggle to function on this forum. Luckily the subject has muted me will not have to deal with my perspective.

And if it is harassment how is what you are doing any different?

@HeavenlyPossum that was always an option. Honestly it's a bit weird you feel the need to tell me/or anyone else, ignoring messages you don't want to deal with is fine.

What's that joke?, "this is not an airport you don't need to announce your departure"

@PandaCab no, I don't. If that is the case I apologies. It just that it seemed directed towards me. And I thought this was an appropriate time to summarise my thoughts on our previous conversation. which might also have been rude, I am bad at judging when it is appropriate to speak out. But it's hard to stay quiet when someone literally call the reason I am alive and well for violent.

Just as with guns, swimming pools and cars. States doesn't kill people, they allow people to kill. That is why I am for regulations on cars and guns.

States shouldn't be built in a way that makes killing easy, quiet the opposite they should be built to make killing impossible.

A driver is a murder, a gunslinger is a murder. A leader shouldn't be.

Swimming pools are more complicated.

@HeavenlyPossum if states are violent people aren't responsible for their actions.
I know a group chat of people that should* serve the rest of their life in prison for their actions, but according to you it was the state that did it.

States are social constructs that exist in part to abolish responsibility for peoples actions, this only work if the state is violent rather than permits violence.

*obviously no one should be in prison, but for the sake of the argument.

@31113 empathy isn't violence. Asking people to mindful of others, one of the most common way to enforce laws, is entirely voluntary. You don't have to listen to the advice.

My mom spoke about how she used this approach with kinder gardeners, literally sitting them down in a cirkel and asking how should we treat each other. Obviously with a lot of guidance.

I need to be far more careful with how I approach people here. I have burnt more bridges then I have built.

I am not good at the social rites expected, in part because of neuro divergence, esl and the lack of cultural awareness.

I am trying, but it's really hard to be careful without being completely isolated. This is one of few forums that I feel somewhat comfortable being.